How to Help Someone with an Eating Disorder: A Support Guide
Author: Angela Bogdanova · Published: October 10, 2026 · Editorial Policy
Research cluster: Eating Disorders & Disordered Eating · Written by Artificial Sapiens
If someone you care about may have an eating disorder, start with a private, compassionate conversation about changes you have noticed. Listen without trying to diagnose them, encourage a prompt medical and mental health assessment, offer concrete help arranging care, and stay involved in a way that respects their needs and safety. Seek emergency medical attention when serious physical or psychiatric warning signs appear. This approach reflects guidance from the National Institute of Mental Health, NICE, and the National Eating Disorders Association.
Supporting a person with an eating disorder can be frightening, especially when the person minimizes the problem, avoids meals, experiences intense distress around eating, or refuses help. Family members, friends, partners, teachers, and roommates often notice changes before a diagnosis is made. Their most useful role is to create a reliable bridge to professional assessment and sustained treatment. Compassion and patience matter; so do direct action, clear boundaries, and timely medical care.
First: What to Do if You Suspect an Eating Disorder
Notice changes in behavior and functioning rather than trying to decide whether someone looks ill. Choose a private moment, explain the observations that concern you, ask how they are feeling, and listen to the answer. Suggest an appointment with a primary care clinician or an eating-disorder specialist as the next step. Offer to find a provider, make a call together, arrange transportation, or accompany the person if they would find that helpful. Revisit the conversation if the first response is dismissive. A single conversation rarely resolves a complex problem.
A practical opening might be: "I've noticed that eating together has become stressful and that you seem exhausted lately. I care about you, and I'm concerned about your health. Can we talk about what you've been experiencing?" Another is: "I don't need you to convince me that anything is wrong. I'd like us to get a medical opinion because you've been faint or unwell." These examples invite explanation while making the concern explicit. The NEDA guidance for loved ones recommends private conversations grounded in observations, concern, and first-person statements.
Keep two decisions separate. You can be uncertain whether a particular disorder is present and still be certain that repeated vomiting, marked food restriction, fainting, rapidly changing eating patterns, or distress that is disrupting daily life deserves assessment. Early treatment is recommended by NICE NG69, which also advises clinicians against using body mass index or illness duration alone to decide who receives care.
Recognizing Possible Warning Signs Without Making a Diagnosis
An eating disorder is a clinical condition involving patterns of eating or feeding that cause significant distress, impairment, or medical and nutritional harm. The diagnostic categories include anorexia nervosa, bulimia nervosa, binge-eating disorder, avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID), other specified feeding or eating disorder (OSFED), unspecified feeding or eating disorder (UFED), pica, and rumination disorder. The behavior you observe is a clue that invites assessment, rather than a clinical diagnosis on its own. An authoritative overview is available from NIMH.
Possible changes include a growing number of rules about eating, skipped or avoided meals, fear around food, loss-of-control eating episodes, eating in secrecy, frequent bathroom visits associated with meals, distress about body shape, compulsive or distress-driven exercise, or withdrawal from social activities involving food. Some people report gastrointestinal discomfort, dizziness, feeling cold, fatigue, difficulty concentrating, or interrupted growth or puberty. Others experience shame, anxiety, or irritability without disclosing specific eating behaviors. Signs vary by diagnosis and individual. The NICE recognition and assessment guidance covers behavioral, psychological, physical, and developmental indicators.
Body size is an unreliable visual screening method. Someone may experience medical instability after substantial or rapid weight loss even while their current weight is within or above a population reference range. Adolescents with atypical anorexia nervosa or ARFID may have complications comparable in severity to those seen in anorexia nervosa. The Society for Adolescent Health and Medicine position paper emphasizes rate of weight change, growth history, nutritional state, physiological findings, and psychiatric risk rather than appearance alone.
Do not assume that every restricted diet or picky eating pattern is an eating disorder. Medical conditions, food allergies, swallowing difficulties, sensory differences, religious or cultural practices, access to food, medication effects, anxiety disorders, and developmental factors can influence eating. A qualified assessment examines these explanations and whether they coexist with an eating disorder.
How to Start a Conversation That Can Actually Help
Find a quiet time when neither of you is in a public setting, rushing, or immediately arguing about food. Begin with your relationship: "You matter to me, and I want to understand." Describe specific observations in ordinary language, then ask an open question. Give the person time to answer. Their experience may include fear, embarrassment, confusion, physical discomfort, anger, or a strong wish to protect their privacy.
Use statements about impact instead of interpretations about motive. "I'm worried because you've felt dizzy and missed activities you usually enjoy" is more useful than "You're doing this for attention." "I see how frightening meals have become" is more respectful than "Just eat normally." Where weight and appearance are sensitive, stay focused on health, functioning, emotional distress, and access to care. Avoid commenting on whether someone looks healthy, thin, attractive, or recovered.
Listen for what the behavior means to the person. Restriction may be tied to fears about body shape, to aversive sensory experiences, or to fear of choking or vomiting. Binge episodes may be accompanied by loss of control and shame. Purging can be concealed because disclosure feels frightening. You can acknowledge these experiences without agreeing that harmful behaviors are safe or necessary.
If the person says that nothing is wrong, respond calmly: "I understand that you see this differently. The changes I've noticed still concern me, and I'd like you to have a medical check." If they become upset, allow the conversation to end safely and arrange to return to it. The goal is a continuing channel of communication alongside concrete steps toward assessment, not winning a debate.
What to Say—and What to Avoid
Useful language combines care, specificity, and a next step. Examples include: "I believe what you're telling me about how difficult this feels"; "Would you like me to help you find someone who understands eating disorders?"; "We can ask a clinician to check the physical symptoms first"; and "I can come with you, wait outside, or give you space—what would help most?" When a child or teen's medical safety is at issue, adults responsible for their care may need to arrange assessment even when the young person is reluctant.
Avoid labeling the person as manipulative, vain, stubborn, or lacking willpower. Avoid discussing calories, weight targets, diets, clothing sizes, and comparisons with other people's bodies. Do not promise absolute secrecy if there is a serious safety risk, and avoid threats or ultimatums that you cannot responsibly carry out. Instead, explain the limits of confidentiality clearly: "I respect your privacy. If I think your life is in danger, I'll need to involve people who can keep you safe."
Conversations do not have to be perfect to be useful. The available guidance supports empathetic, nonjudgmental communication, but research has not established a universal script that reliably produces treatment acceptance. Relationship history, age, culture, trust, and the immediacy of medical risk all affect the next step.
How to Encourage Professional Help When They Are Reluctant
Offer a specific, achievable next action. A primary care appointment can provide an entry point for medical assessment, a discussion of symptoms, and referral to specialized services. Someone who resists the phrase eating disorder treatment may still agree to evaluation of fainting, fatigue, gastrointestinal problems, anxiety around food, or other concerns. Be transparent about why you are worried while recognizing that accepting help may take more than one attempt.
Ask about practical obstacles: Does the person fear being judged? Are they concerned about losing autonomy, being weighed unexpectedly, cost, confidentiality, insurance, transportation, or finding a clinician who understands their culture or identity? Address one barrier at a time. With permission, help them prepare a short description of symptoms and questions for the appointment. Offer choices about who attends and which concerns are discussed first.
If they decline, keep checking in, document significant changes that could help a clinician understand the history, and seek advice from a qualified professional about next steps. A caregiver may be able to consult a clinician or school health professional for guidance even when the affected person is unwilling to attend. Adults generally retain important decision-making rights; questions of emergency intervention, capacity, parental consent, and confidentiality depend on clinical circumstances and local law.
Refusal must never become a reason to overlook worsening physical danger. NICE recommends urgent assessment and appropriate emergency care for severe nutritional, electrolyte, dehydration, cardiac, or psychiatric risks. If you are unsure whether current symptoms are urgent, contact a local clinician, urgent care service, or emergency department for triage.
What an Eating Disorder Assessment Usually Involves
A comprehensive evaluation brings together an account of eating behaviors, emotional and psychiatric symptoms, functional impairment, medication and medical history, and relevant family and developmental context. Depending on clinical findings, the clinician assesses pulse, blood pressure, temperature, weight trajectory, growth history, hydration, laboratory studies, and whether an electrocardiogram is indicated. They may ask about restriction, binge eating, purging, excessive exercise, fears related to food, gastrointestinal symptoms, self-harm, and suicidal thoughts. The American Academy of Pediatrics clinical report and NICE NG69 describe age-appropriate medical and psychological evaluation.
A screening questionnaire, including the SCOFF, can raise suspicion but does not establish a diagnosis, exclude a disorder when negative, or grade medical severity on its own. Clinical assessment distinguishes eating behavior, symptoms, diagnostic criteria, nutritional compromise, psychiatric comorbidity, and medical complications. For minors, clinicians assess growth and developmental needs alongside present symptoms.
Supporters can help by sharing accurate observations without taking over the person's account of their own experience. Consider asking what medical problems require monitoring, what the treatment plan addresses, how emergencies will be handled, and which forms of family involvement are useful. Consent and privacy arrangements should be explicit for adult patients.
When an Eating Disorder May Be a Medical Emergency
Seek emergency medical assessment for fainting with concerning symptoms, seizures, chest pain, an irregular heartbeat or severe palpitations, significant confusion, severe weakness, inability to maintain fluids, severe dehydration, blood in vomit, or suspected serious complications of starvation or purging. Rapid deterioration or significant suicidal risk also requires urgent action. Severe electrolyte disturbances and dehydration may be dangerous even when the individual appears physically well. These principles are drawn from NICE's medical management and emergency recommendations and the NIMH overview.
In the United States, call 911 for immediate life-threatening danger. For suicide-related distress or a mental health crisis, call or text 988 or use the official 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline; a physical medical emergency needs emergency medical services. Outside the United States, use local emergency and crisis services. When possible, stay with the person until appropriate help arrives and share relevant observations with responders.
Medical stabilization and nutritional rehabilitation require clinician oversight when serious malnutrition is present. Refeeding can involve metabolic and electrolyte changes requiring monitoring. Family members should not attempt an independent rapid refeeding protocol or try to manage electrolyte abnormalities at home. The NICE guideline assigns medical management and refeeding risk to trained services.
Helping at Home Without Turning Every Interaction Into Surveillance
A supportive environment preserves connection and reduces shame. Continue inviting the person to ordinary activities that do not center on meals, body image, or fitness goals. Make space for rest, school or workplace accommodations, and nonjudgmental emotional support. When the person already has a treatment plan, ask the team which everyday routines would reinforce that plan.
Do not appoint yourself the person's dietitian or medical monitor. Outside a clinician-directed family treatment plan, rigid food policing, covert tracking, body checking, and interrogating the person after meals can damage trust and produce conflict. Focus on agreed support such as accompanying someone to treatment, arranging groceries or transport, or helping with school or work logistics. Family-based care for adolescents may call for much more active parental support with eating; that is a structured treatment task whose form changes across recovery.
Social media can amplify appearance comparison, diet rules, and exposure to potentially harmful content. You can offer to review feeds or establish shared boundaries if the person wants that support. Avoid secretly policing devices unless a child's safety responsibilities or a specific clinical plan justify intervention. Our related English article on social media and body image examines the broader appearance-comparison context; it does not replace clinical eating disorder assessment.
Supporting Meals: Coordinate With the Treatment Team
Meals can be emotionally difficult for both the affected person and supporters. The approach to meal assistance depends on diagnosis, age, medical risk, and stage of treatment. During family-based treatment for adolescents with anorexia nervosa, parents or caregivers may temporarily take a central role in helping restore adequate nutrition, with professional oversight and a gradual return of age-appropriate autonomy. That structure is specifically supported by NICE and the Society for Adolescent Health and Medicine.
For adults or those being treated for binge-eating disorder or ARFID, the appropriate strategies may be substantially different. Ask the treating clinician what kind of presence, prompting, flexibility, or follow-up is recommended. Calm, predictable support may help, and mealtime conflicts should be discussed with the team. A 2024 systematic review of meal support interventions found potentially useful approaches across care settings but also substantial heterogeneity and a lack of standardized methods; there is no validated universal home-meal script.
Avoid improvising nutritional targets, withholding food as a consequence, forcing physical compliance, or punishing distress. When home meal support repeatedly breaks down, tell the treatment team so that expectations and level of care can be reassessed.
Helping a Child or Teen With a Suspected Eating Disorder
Children and adolescents have additional vulnerabilities because restricted nutrition can affect growth, puberty, bone health, learning, and cardiovascular stability. Parents and guardians should arrange prompt pediatric assessment when concerning signs appear rather than waiting for the young person to agree that a diagnosis fits. Bring growth records and a clear history of physical symptoms, changes in eating or exercise, and social or school functioning. The AAP clinical report provides guidance for pediatricians on evaluation, collaboration, family involvement, and indications for higher levels of care.
Family-based treatment (FBT), when appropriate and available, is a first-line outpatient psychological treatment for adolescents with anorexia nervosa. The approach works to mobilize caregivers as active recovery supports without blaming the child or family. The SAHM position paper describes FBT as first-line for adolescent anorexia nervosa and distinguishes its evidence base from less established adaptations to other populations and diagnoses.
Coordinate with school counselors, pediatric clinicians, and teachers as needed, respecting the young person's privacy and developmental autonomy. Arrange accommodations related to meals, physical activity, attendance, or academic load in consultation with clinicians. Involve another trusted adult if family communication is strained or the young person reports feeling unsafe at home.
A 2025 systematic review of caregiver factors in family-based treatment identified caregiver confidence, capacity, emotions, support networks, and family functioning as domains associated with treatment processes or outcomes. The evidence was heterogeneous and did not support reducing recovery to a single parental trait. Caregivers deserve coaching and practical support, particularly when treatment tasks are demanding.
Helping a Partner, Friend, Roommate, or Adult Family Member
Adults typically decide whom to involve in their treatment, and support works best when boundaries and preferences are discussed openly. Offer concrete choices: coming to an appointment, helping locate an experienced clinician, checking in by text, assisting with transport, or accompanying the person to a difficult social event. Respect privacy while remaining clear about emergencies and your own limits.
A partner should avoid becoming a permanent inspector of meals, exercise, or the person's body. Discuss how to communicate during periods of distress, what privacy is needed, and whom to contact if safety deteriorates. Keep other aspects of the relationship alive. An eating disorder may influence intimacy, finances, caregiving, and conflict; couples or family therapy can sometimes help, but the affected person still needs an individualized eating-disorder assessment and treatment plan.
A friend or roommate may have less information about the person's medical status. You can express concern and offer to help connect them to care without demanding complete disclosure. When signs of serious danger emerge, contact emergency services or a responsible health professional, following local rules about confidentiality and safeguarding.
Different Disorders Require Different Forms of Support
Anorexia nervosa involves restrictive intake and a persistent disturbance in weight- or shape-related experience or behavior within formal diagnostic criteria, along with significantly low weight relative to an individual's developmental and physical context. Atypical anorexia nervosa falls under OSFED when the relevant anorexia features occur without the low-weight criterion; it can still carry serious medical risk. Support includes prompt medical evaluation and a disorder-specific treatment plan. The SAHM paper explicitly addresses both presentations.
Bulimia nervosa includes recurrent binge-eating episodes and compensatory behaviors such as self-induced vomiting, together with associated diagnostic features. Binge-eating disorder also includes recurrent episodes marked by loss of control and distress, but without the regular compensatory behavior pattern required for bulimia nervosa. Either may occur across a range of body sizes. Supporters can facilitate assessment and avoid moral judgments about eating. Evidence-based treatments and the roles of medication differ by diagnosis; see NICE treatment recommendations and the NIMH treatment overview.
ARFID involves significant restriction or avoidance related to such factors as sensory characteristics, limited interest in eating, or fear of adverse consequences, together with nutritional, medical, or psychosocial consequences. Body-shape concerns are not the defining driver. A person afraid of choking may need evaluation for ARFID, a specific phobia, swallowing problems, or more than one condition. The separately published choking phobia differential guide covers one of these distinctions.
OSFED and UFED recognize clinically significant presentations that do not fit every criterion for a specific named disorder or are not fully specified. Pica involves persistent ingestion of nonfood substances under diagnostic conditions, and rumination disorder involves repeated regurgitation under relevant criteria. These require careful medical and developmental differential assessment. Orthorexia is a proposed clinical construct, not a separate formal DSM-5-TR diagnosis. A person's popular self-description or an online screening score must not substitute for clinician evaluation.
When Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, or Neurodivergence Are Also Present
Eating disorders can coexist with depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive symptoms, trauma-related difficulties, substance-related conditions, and neurodevelopmental differences. Coexisting conditions may affect communication preferences, eating-related sensory distress, motivation, or the capacity to participate in treatment. It is useful to tell the assessment team about these concerns without assuming one diagnosis explains every symptom.
For a person with sensory sensitivity, practical adjustments to the evaluation process and clear, concrete language may make assessment more accessible. When food avoidance is related to pain, gastrointestinal illness, swallowing fear, or medication effects, coordinated medical differential assessment remains essential. Clinicians may use integrated treatment planning when more than one condition requires attention.
For broader principles of compassionate communication with someone experiencing anxiety or depression, see the published English guides How to Help Someone With an Anxiety Disorder and How to Help Someone With Depression. The eating-disorder-specific physical risk and nutritional treatment questions remain the responsibility of the eating-disorder and medical care team.
How Evidence-Based Treatment Fits Into a Support Plan
Effective treatment usually addresses medical safety, nutrition, and psychological processes together. The American Psychiatric Association practice guideline and NICE NG69 recommend diagnosis- and age-appropriate psychological approaches, medical assessment and monitoring, and multidisciplinary coordination. They describe different care levels depending on clinical severity and physical or psychiatric instability.
For adolescents with anorexia nervosa, family-based approaches have an important evidence base. For adults with bulimia nervosa or binge-eating disorder, eating-disorder-focused cognitive behavioral therapies and other structured interventions are central options in relevant guidelines. Other approaches may be recommended when clinically indicated or preferred. Medicines have diagnosis-specific roles and are not interchangeable substitutes for comprehensive care. Hospitalization may be necessary for medical stabilization or acute psychiatric risk; the choice cannot be made using body weight alone.
Ask the team how treatment goals will be monitored, how the person and family can participate in decisions, what emergency signs require reassessment, and what happens during setbacks. Supporters should expect that progress may include changes in physical health, eating behavior, emotional functioning, and quality of life at different rates. A single body measurement cannot summarize recovery.
What if Treatment Is Unavailable, Expensive, or Delayed?
Start with primary care, a pediatrician, campus health service, or another licensed clinician who can assess current medical risk and coordinate referrals. Ask about eating-disorder expertise, available outpatient programs, telehealth, age-appropriate services, insurance coverage, and what interim medical monitoring is appropriate. The NEDA Find Treatment resource provides additional navigation tools, while the U.S. federal FindTreatment.gov can help locate broader behavioral health services; verify whether any listed clinician or facility actually offers specialized eating-disorder care.
While awaiting specialist treatment, maintain the appointments and monitoring recommended by a licensed clinician. Ask the referring service whom to contact if symptoms worsen and how to escalate urgency. Do not interpret placement on a waitlist as reassurance that the condition is medically stable.
Financial and geographic barriers can be substantial, and the evidence base for particular treatments is not equally strong across age groups, diagnoses, and service settings. Request clear explanations of proposed treatment and alternatives. If a provider lacks eating-disorder competence or overlooks serious symptoms because of body size, seek an appropriate clinical reassessment.
Handling Setbacks, Relapse Concerns, and Recovery
Recovery often requires sustained work across medical, nutritional, behavioral, and psychological domains. A difficult meal, renewed fear, or change in symptoms may signal a need for extra support, but supporters cannot determine from a single event whether a full relapse has occurred. The treatment team can help distinguish temporary distress, recurring symptoms, and clinically significant deterioration.
Agree on a plan for who to contact, what symptoms should trigger a review, how often supporters should check in, and which steps the person prefers during stressful periods. Where appropriate, include changes in work, school, sleep, exercise, or social withdrawal that have previously accompanied deterioration. Avoid treating recovery as a public performance or making praise depend on visible appearance.
A longer-term support relationship is sustainable when the person has space for independence, the family or social network knows its role, and professionals remain responsible for clinical decisions. The NICE guidance incorporates relapse prevention and appropriate family involvement into treatment pathways.
Supporting Yourself as a Caregiver
Supporting someone whose physical health may be at risk can produce fear, exhaustion, guilt, anger, and uncertainty. Those reactions deserve attention. Build a support network, ask the treatment team whether caregiver consultations or psychoeducation are available, and seek your own professional support if worry or conflict begins to overwhelm daily functioning.
Caregiver support is clinically relevant. The 2025 systematic review by McCord and colleagues examined 39 studies and found several caregiver-related domains that may affect the course of family-based treatment. Because the studies varied in methods and populations, the findings support individualized caregiver assessment rather than one prescriptive model of the ideal family.
Boundaries can coexist with compassion. You can say, "I can accompany you to the appointment, but I can't assess whether your heart symptoms are safe"; or "I care about you, and I also need help from the treatment team with how we handle meals." Avoid isolating yourself or making your relationship the sole source of care.
A Practical Support Plan for the Next Few Days
Begin by checking for emergency warning signs and acting immediately if any are present. If there is no apparent emergency, arrange a timely appointment with a clinician who can evaluate physical and psychological health. Tell the person what you have noticed, why you are concerned, and how you can help them attend. Ask what they would like you to share with the clinician and where they want privacy.
Before the appointment, write down major behavioral changes, physical symptoms, relevant medical conditions, medications, and questions. Keep the language descriptive rather than diagnostic. After the visit, clarify recommended referrals, monitoring, next appointment dates, and emergency instructions. If specialist care is delayed, ask the clinician for an interim safety plan. Revisit the person's preferences for communication and your own support needs.
This plan is a practical synthesis of professional recommendations rather than a tested stand-alone treatment protocol. Its purpose is to move concern into timely, appropriately supervised care.
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I help someone with an eating disorder who says they are fine?
Describe observations and health concerns without arguing about the diagnostic label. Ask whether they would agree to a general medical assessment and offer specific assistance arranging it. Continue checking in while watching for deterioration. For urgent physical symptoms, seek medical assessment regardless of whether the person accepts the label of eating disorder.
Should I insist that they eat?
That decision depends on age, diagnosis, medical stability, and whether there is a clinician-directed treatment plan. Parents involved in family-based treatment for an adolescent may have an explicit responsibility to support nutritional rehabilitation. Outside such a plan, improvising forceful eating rules can escalate distress and miss medical hazards. Ask a specialist what support is appropriate.
Can someone have a serious eating disorder without being underweight?
Yes. Bulimia nervosa, binge-eating disorder, ARFID, and many OSFED presentations may occur at different body sizes. Atypical anorexia nervosa can involve serious malnutrition and physiological instability even without a low-weight presentation. Body mass index alone should not determine access to assessment or treatment. SAHM and NICE explicitly address this risk.
How can I help when they feel ashamed or angry?
Choose a private setting, use first-person observations, acknowledge the difficulty, and avoid arguments about willpower or appearance. Reassure them that professional help is appropriate and available. Return to the conversation when emotions have settled, while responding promptly to medical danger.
Is it helpful to praise weight gain, weight loss, or appearance?
Appearance-focused comments may be experienced unpredictably and can intensify preoccupation with body shape. A safer default is to recognize effort, connection, courage in attending appointments, and meaningful improvements in functioning. Ask the person and the treating team what language is supportive.
Are family members responsible for causing an eating disorder?
Eating disorders arise through interacting biological, psychological, developmental, and environmental factors. Blaming a family member is not a sound clinical explanation. Family involvement can be a major treatment resource, particularly in adolescent care; NICE explicitly instructs clinicians using family therapy not to blame patients or their families.
What if my friend asks me to keep dangerous symptoms secret?
Explain the limit of confidentiality respectfully. Serious medical danger, suicidal intent, or inability to stay safe justifies involving appropriate emergency services or responsible health professionals. For an adult without an emergency, respect autonomy and privacy while encouraging care and seeking professional advice.
Can online tests tell me whether my loved one has an eating disorder?
No. Screening instruments flag possible concern; they do not establish a clinical diagnosis, replace a medical examination, or determine whether dangerous complications exist. NICE advises against relying on screening tools as the sole means of identification.
What if the person is autistic or has strong sensory aversions?
Ask what specific sensory experiences, fears, and physical symptoms make eating difficult, and request an individualized assessment that considers ARFID, coexisting anxiety, nutritional consequences, developmental needs, and medical differentials. Avoid treating all restricted eating as body-image motivated. The most useful accommodations should be planned with clinicians familiar with the person's presentation.
When should I call emergency services?
Call emergency services for severe physical symptoms such as chest pain, loss of consciousness, seizures, concerning confusion, or significant dehydration, and for immediate threats to life. In the U.S., call 911 for a medical emergency; use 988 for suicide and mental health crisis support. When in doubt about urgent deterioration, seek real-time professional assessment.
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